Issue #4 2025

Let’s Talk: What Is a Healthy Relationship, Anyway?

Spoiler: It’s more than just liking the same pizza toppings.

A healthy relationship feels like your favorite cozy hoodie—safe, comfy, and 100% you. It’s about feeling respected, heard, and supported. You can be your full, messy, magical self without walking on eggshells or feeling like you have to shrink to fit in.

Real talk: all relationships take work. But in a healthy one, both people are showing up, growing up, and cheering each other on.

Want to check in with your heart? Take our quick (and fun!) quiz:

The “Are We Good?” Quiz

Answer each with: Yes, Kinda, or Nope

1. Do I feel respected—even when we don’t agree?

2. Can I say what’s on my mind without drama?

3. Do I trust them, and do they trust me?

4. When we argue, do we fight fair (no name-calling or ghosting)?

5. Do we celebrate each other’s wins, big or small?

6. Can I hang with friends or chill solo without guilt trips?

7. Do we show love—through words, hugs, high-fives, whatever works?

8. Do I feel safe—emotionally and physically?

9. Do we make decisions together, like a team?

10. Are my boundaries respected (like not texting 24/7 or needing downtime)?

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So… How’d You Do?

Mostly Yes:

You two sound like a solid team! Keep that good energy flowing—mutual respect and communication are your superpowers.

Mostly Kinda:

You’ve got a decent base, but there’s room for a tune-up. Time for some real convos, more listening, and maybe a little extra TLC.

Mostly Nope:

Oof. It might be time to check in with yourself and ask: Does this relationship support the best version of me? If not, don’t go it alone—reach out to someone you trust.

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Remember:

You deserve a relationship that lifts you up—not one that drags you down. Love should feel like freedom, not a full-time job in emotional gymnastics.